Pretty Woman

In my high-school days, when someone asked me what an ideal woman I was looking for, I would definitely refer to many attractive girls and women whose faces often show up in international or local media, television, newspapers and magazines: those who are physically perfect.

As time goes by, my perspective towards the value of beauty gradually change and now change in a big way. I’m still not blinded enough to still be able to appreciate physical beauty. I still can talk about it in minute details. It’s my preference that changes.

I no longer put physical attractiveness as a priority or even a preference. Inner beauty is much more appealing and attractive to me.

Inner beauty

Well, what’s inner beauty anyway? Please refer to any definition you can find out. My own version is that one, or a woman, with inner qualities at least should have these following qualities:

  • Admired by people around her not for her physical appearance, rather for her personality
  • People feel comfortable talk to her and sit down around her
  • Having good self-esteem, self-respect and loyalty
  • Humble and honest

Do you have your own criteria of what pretty woman or charming person is?


  1. Having good sense of humor

  2. well, bottom line… i agree with inner beauty…
    criteria? it’s old time question, and its still difficult to answer it… hehehe..

  3. Humor for sure…

  4. Always remind me to Allah the Almighty, when I see her face…

  5. dobelden

    duh gak iso bahasa inggris..

    pretty women : people happy to join with her long time sure for all activity

    *bener gak seeh….*

  6. Pretty Woman? This is my criteria :

    - Both beautiful [i have my own definitions] and charming
    - When we talk to her, she appreciate us

  7. Hehehe….Well, actually I have someone. :D

    In my terms of quality, here it is :

    1. Religious
    2. No “talk with money”. (Ah, you know what’s the meaning…)
    3. Smart, and I recommend for criticism woman. :D

  8. Hehehe….Well, actually I have someone. :D

    In my terms of quality, here it is :

    1. Religious
    2. No “talk with money”. (Ah, you know what’s the meaning…)
    3. Smart, and I recommend for criticism woman. :D

  9. Warm, love others, cares for her future… hmm… woman is the most complicated hardware…:) oops…sorry

  10. wah saya suka artikel ini! bisa dikutip buat post saya ttg body image
    makasih ya Mas…

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